Meaning: Instead of asking “What do you do for fun? ” and from there, I’ll get to learn what the person enjoys doing in their free time. RELATED: What If Your SO Didn't Like Your Body?Instead of being in the moment and asking about things based on the person we’re with, people come with these dating interview questions that they use on everyone they’ve ever met, and expect sparks to fly with generic inquisitions. I call these annoying dating questions, but they might just be lazy dating questions. On her blog, Plus Size Princess, Ce Ce Olisa has detailed everything from what it's like to be the only big black girl in a yoga class (fine, thanks!For me, the answer is always the same: “I like all types of guys." I mean, if I’m on a date with you, it's because I’m open to dating you, no matter what you look like. So, are you trying to make me to cry on our first date?
If the myriad of profile questions asked overwhelm you, stop, take a deep breath, and focus on answering each question in a way that best represents who you really are.
What follows are some generic profile questions, along with suggested unique answers and explanations as to how they’ll help get you noticed.
), to her adventures in plus-size dating in the Big Apple.
Now, the New York City transplant is lending her poignant, often-hilarious voice to R29.
You know that you’re an interesting person, but selling yourself via your profile isn’t your strong point.
Never fear, e Harmony Advice is here to help you craft honest, funny and succinct answers to profile questions.
(aka, "Why are you single: The Remix)This is one of those backhanded compliments that really has no response. As a Plus-Size Princess, I often wonder if the guys asking me out have dated big girls before (not that it matters, but I do wonder), and I’ve learned that the answer is rarely helpful.
When men say this to me, it makes me feel like something is wrong with me — especially because 99% of the men who use corny lines like this will not make any moves to take me off the market. If his last three girlfriends looked like Jennifer Lopez, I may feel insecure, but if his last three girlfriends looked like Rebel Wilson, I might wonder if he’s a chubby chaser.
” The world already gives single girls the side-eye; there really is no need to bring up singledom on dates.