Japan is a modern Westernized country and Japanese girls are heavily influenced by both American and European culture and their own pop culture in movies, television, and the ubiquitous manga comics.
I can’t explain why but Japanese are much less pikcy than western people so on this note, you don’t need to push yourself to much, again, be yourself, it will be just fine. Only “no brain” girls prefer “wanna be” guys, at least here it is like that. Ask her the personal questions, see their reactions and hear what they reply!
There are two type of women on a date and you wont probably know it before you have a little chat with her face to face. Also, Roppongi girls, want or dont want it, up to you but that is good only for sex. Those who can do these basic manners will gain the heart of these beautiful Japanese ladies. Surprisingly, most of foreigner have no idea how to behave even if it sounds so simple. Reason is if you only do the fun way like a clown 24 hours a day, she will get tired.
Though it may seem strange to Americans and Europeans, most Japanese women make an effort to conform to these traditional values.
However, trying to be a traditional wife and mother in a modern, wired society is not easy for most Japanese women.
Advice: In case you don’t know yet, not all of them but some Japanese think foreigner have money and they look so cool that they want to bring you as an accessory to show off in public or to friends. Don’t forget, we are talking about serious girls here.
But also, if we always take a rest then it will be boring as well so just follow her.
So you don’t have to be that special to make the date perfect, just be yourself without pretending you are someone else and everything will be just perfect. Unlike western countries, every type of guy have their chance to find a good person in Japan.
You can even be a geek or not the most handsome guy, there will always be a girl interested. We often say, what you see is your reflection, like a mirror so don’t forget to enjoy the moment too.
The tradition that the wife was submissive to her husband was a central tenet of that culture and the tradition that a wife's primary goal in life is to obey and pamper her husband still runs deep.
The traditional phrase "Good wife - Wise Mother" is still bandied about as the female ideal and the sexy geisha girl is still held up as a model of the expectations men have for their wives.
For instance, in Japanese manga comics the most popular heroes tend to be girls and the fads and fashions of Japanese school girls often cross the line from ridiculous to downright bizarre.