this is not being a mother (definitely do not go to this direction).in fact friends do that to other friends right, they help and support one another at tough times?Oh, BTW, it's NOT your job to motivate your boyfriend to graduate or get a job. You're not his mother - you're his partner - or soon to be ex partner.
Finally, after all these years, the perfect relationship has finally been found. It is important to recognize these warning signs before it's too late. Assuming that he will eventually change and open up to your hobbies is misguided. These are signs that he will likely be very cheap throughout the duration of the relationship.4. There's nothing wrong with sitting on the couch and watching sports. But this should never trump the responsibilities of a relationship or take precedence over family obligations. Expecting a home cooked meal every single night makes for a relationship that will likely feel unbalanced in the long run. There should be contributions from both parties, even if that contribution isn't always evenly divided. The I-get-increasingly-less-romantic-with-each-date guy. Many men break out all the stops early on in the dating process, but by the fifth of sixth date, the laziness starts to creep in.
The alternative is waking up one day down the road divorced with five kids and fifty thousand dollars in debt, watching re-runs of "Honey Boo Boo" on Nick at Nite. But the truth is, as much as we often ignore the warning signs of a potentially bad relationship early on in the dating process, these issues don't go away. So, instead of jumping into that long-term relationship with a man you suspect may be wrong for you, let's take a look at fifteen types of guys to avoid getting into long-term relationships with in the first place. There is a difference between loving sports and having a childish obsession with them. While no man should always be expected to plan five-star dates, at the same time, the romance shouldn't just completely fall off a cliff at once.
possible things to look at: does your boyfriend love you the same way?
do you see something special in him that if given the opportunity and motivation his life can change? i know a lot of people that never graduated but still have done well for themselves. does he have any ambitions or dreams he wants to reach?
The I'm-in-my-late-twenties-or-older-and-still-live-with-my-mother guy. In my book, living at home up until age 25 is acceptable, provided the guy was going through schooling or saving up money. Some men may not like being tied down to a phone, but responding to your text messages or phone calls shouldn't be annoying; it's common courtesy and respect.
But anyone who has been working for a couple of years and still lives with his mother past this age is never going to grow up. This is a warning sign of future selfish behavior.12. The opposite of number eleven, the over-controlling guy must know where "his woman" his every second of the day and approve of who she is hanging out with.
If he truly cares about you, his good behaviors will grow stronger.
Those who back down and start getting lazier after having sex for the first time were probably only after one thing to begin with.8. Anyone, regardless of gender, who asks for help paying bills early on in a relationship should raise red flags. By paying for him early on, you are setting the tone that it will be this way for your entire future.9. Be very wary of men who talk up a big game of what they plan on doing with their lives. Often times when this line is pulled, its code for "I'm looking for a marriage and kids, just not with you." Steer clear.14. If you like being indoors more than being outdoors, this may be a good match for you.
so it shouldnt hurt to give him the "support" he needs "if" he is worth it. You have to take the risk if you want to be with to that person. If you did you encourage him to get a job and finish his high school diploma. Love encourages, lifts up, gives, supports, sacrifices, etc.